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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - not this time of year again - Make it stand out</image:title>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/12/2/unknowable</loc>
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    <lastmod>2024-12-02</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Unknowable - Make it stand out</image:title>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/11/21/grieving-online</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-11-21</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1833b123-fc6d-4391-8cbd-5d34cd429dc5/diego-ph-SZYreZsJ-fE-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Grieving online - Make it stand out</image:title>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/10/30/the-appointed-time</loc>
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    <lastmod>2024-11-04</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/384bab53-d415-4737-87a3-b5439441331a/ales-krivec-ZMZHcvIVgbg-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The appointed time - Make it stand out</image:title>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/10/20/my-second-heartbeat</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-10-21</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/0085f8e9-46d3-4472-a137-29bbd7030e62/mohamed-nohassi-odxB5oIG_iA-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - My second heartbeat - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>SOURCE</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/10/9/the-mom-i-would-have-been</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-10-09</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/7d0165be-f081-4be8-836a-8f3a7e0fc8d9/lacie-slezak-yHG6llFLjS0-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The mom I would have been - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Source</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/9/24/rubble</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-09-25</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/a1f5077b-29fe-42ea-8448-255151ffa68f/carl-tronders-HH2UAeLHAyM-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Rubble - Make it stand out</image:title>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/9/10/autumn-and-her-many-moods</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-09-10</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/bb3a82dd-37ce-4f38-b99a-9716c4e585f2/simon-berger-scwaB99e-oQ-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Autumn and her many moods - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Source</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/8/30/from-the-archives-attitude-shamtitude</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-08-30</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/a613a5f9-03dd-4c4c-81f8-11b5c62401bb/gabor-monori-VCVI5QUvFAY-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - From the archives: Attitude-shamtitude - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Source</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/8/12/the-personal-responsibility-trap</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-08-13</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/336e20e4-062d-4b48-915c-f78db9ba9c7e/rajesh-rajput-Sw8LdXgIsUY-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The personal responsibility trap - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Source</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/7/29/milestones</loc>
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    <lastmod>2024-09-25</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/4e3fd275-bd5a-406f-a5cb-4afe9c3513e3/nick-fewings-7bRoTi_Qaa4-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Milestones - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>SOURCE</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/7/14/i-wish-you-knew-my-grief</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-07-14</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/91b4cf4e-fef7-4096-b5fc-42c50f1ee031/volkan-olmez-wESKMSgZJDo-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - I wish you knew my grief - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>SOURce</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/7/1/all-i-have-to-offer</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-07-02</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/64e2719f-d735-4e48-a462-581307adda30/david-clode-7C5C6_V_ZiI-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - all i have to offer - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Source</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/6/26/a-pause-some-reflection-and-an-invitation</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-06-26</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/68858919-ca30-48fc-b813-10e69a4cb6d0/eileen-pan-5d5DSRQ5dUc-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - A pause, some reflection and an invitation - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Source</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/4/29/hello-sadness</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-04-30</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/5f2597a0-7301-40ae-b446-2da3a14a7508/kyle-peyton-rWotMddrvUM-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Hello, sadness - Make it stand out</image:title>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/4/15/river-part-2</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-04-15</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/81c1307d-1829-49e0-837c-29351a582f45/brian-beckwith-67EKvwFtw8M-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - river part 2 - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Source</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/4/1/the-unfixable-problem</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-04-01</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/55f74223-bf1e-44c4-98c7-c6811b9eb337/matthew-waring-MJAoiige14E-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The unfixable problem - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>SOURCE</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/2/19/s6e4-aftermath</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-02-19</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/5be44e9f-cdc4-40ac-a78c-bc32633f4a18/sasha-freemind-Pv5WeEyxMWU-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - S6E4: Aftermath - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Source</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/2/5/why-why-why</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-02-05</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/fcb68b3b-76d5-4c83-8540-173ea3e66edd/emily-morter-8xAA0f9yQnE-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - why, why, why - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Source</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/1/22/first-rites-last-rites</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-01-22</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/9fd88cea-018d-4313-adeb-05aead0ca96e/mckenna-phillips-Db-stA8meJY-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - First rites, last rites - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>SOURCE</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2024/1/8/the-years-pile-up</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2024-01-11</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/524fe625-7466-4923-aae6-46d7b41ab105/george-hiles-i71W6sjKLAg-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The years pile up - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Source</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2023/12/12/here-come-the-holidays-again</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2023-12-14</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/17bbffce-275b-4e60-a792-a353638909da/sixteen-miles-out-7rGgIDEm6GM-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Here come the holidays, again: a kitchen table post - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Source</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2023/11/27/she-died-not-so-long-ago</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2023-11-27</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/7dc99b00-c232-461f-a3d6-5e5d12bcb2f9/sixteen-miles-out--Al2heq-lP0-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - she died not so long ago - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>SOURCE</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2023/11/13/what-blooms-in-darkness</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2023-11-13</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/c3bb8fb0-e801-4fcb-8180-70919f2cb275/claire-brear-o8IHJtksEag-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - What blooms in darkness - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>SOURCE</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2023/10/4/the-time-machine-fantasy</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2023-10-04</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/e1b731a5-ddf9-4758-a862-fe95bfe214fe/alexander-schimmeck-e5sR26bNdPw-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The time machine fantasy - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Source</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2023/9/11/partners-a-kitchen-table-post</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2023-09-11</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/6922c84e-1cd4-4610-9f03-f37f7ecf6cf3/harry-cunningham-buFy9dYJaTg-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Partners: a kitchen table post - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Source</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2023/8/25/missed-kindergarten</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2023-08-25</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/14b44cae-6472-4a92-990c-ae44ac108d12/sonya-lynne-siaZOhMQsMM-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Missed kindergarten - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Source</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2023/8/7/absent-presence</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2023-08-08</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/accf009f-4ed0-4412-a79f-948f8e6bac75/IMG_1501.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Absent presence - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2023/7/24/a-decade-of-july</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2023-07-25</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/c23597d8-e77a-44dd-aa3c-65a621fb92ef/mieke-campbell-h6gwNVngHcI-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - A decade of July - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>A close up of a pink rose covered in snow</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2023/7/4/arches</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2023-07-04</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/61e31880-c916-4358-adea-a12fa921dad1/luigi-manga-hoNMzLmVhYg-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Arches - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>SOURCE</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2023/6/13/from-the-archives-a-fathers-day-visit</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2023-06-14</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/82982113-60a2-4d59-bf02-c8f1b09fff82/ante-hamersmit-vMP8lfhxPi4-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - From the archives: A Father's Day visit - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Source</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2023/5/29/birthdays</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2023-05-29</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/ef0b4887-4c0e-4cbc-a8a7-1d8c2baa5149/luca-upper-Z-4kOr93RCI-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Birthdays - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>SOURCE</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2023/5/13/mothers-day</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2023-05-13</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/70b526e2-eb8e-47b1-9b3f-12075252ae89/preston-browning-Ql3woxbBTRw-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Mother's Day - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>SOURCE</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2023/5/1/chimera</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2023-05-01</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/a12c1102-52db-4af0-b938-cd5269015262/pawel-czerwinski-LyZLaA5jtiY-unsplash.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Chimera - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Trauma and the odds - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Still losing - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Corners - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - What's your pleasure? - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Panic - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Muddling through - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Winter, two poems - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Old grief - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Getting through holidays: a kitchen table post - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Baby X - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The worst first birthday - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Objections - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Paint by numbers - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Like a ship - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Writer's block - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - infrasound - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Wonder - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Chimes - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - I scream - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Unseen - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - A family calculus - Make it stand out</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2022-08-27</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Echo - Make it stand out</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2022-08-27</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Back to work: A kitchen table post - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - What is left to say - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - stone pillows - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Why I don't believe in Bereaved Mothers' Day - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Simmering - Make it stand out</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2022-08-27</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The Namesake - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Heavenly bodies - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - I miss so much it hurts - Make it stand out</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2022-08-27</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Selfish? - Make it stand out</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2022-08-27</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - a love song from the early days - Make it stand out</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2022-08-27</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Amado, aged 3, playing in the park with a dog - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Transformation</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The unthinkable</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - On writing</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The journal</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Better</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The gift of empathy</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Springtime on my lips</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The keeper</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - They Said: a trauma haiku</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Remembering my innocence</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Too close to see</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2020-03-09</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Reflections of a decade</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - It will not burn you</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - A letter to the son I never knew</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Of surf and seasons</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The alternate universe</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The urn</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - On recordkeeping</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Transported</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The presence of another's heart</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The meatbag</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2021-02-16</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - One year out and everything soft still hurts</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - I wanted chaos</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2019-10-21</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Searching for my son</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - We need a better word</image:title>
      <image:caption>This is about half of the paraphernalia we'd used by the end of our fertility process.</image:caption>
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    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/10/7/culture-of-numbness</loc>
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    <lastmod>2019-10-07</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Culture of numbness</image:title>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/9/29/the-hiatus</loc>
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    <lastmod>2019-09-29</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The hiatus</image:title>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/7/16/the-intense-and-the-ugly</loc>
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    <lastmod>2019-10-11</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The intense and the ugly</image:title>
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  <url>
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    <lastmod>2019-07-11</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The aftershocks</image:title>
      <image:caption>SOURCE</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/7/2/its-ok-to-not-be-ok</loc>
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    <lastmod>2019-10-11</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - It's ok to not be ok</image:title>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/6/13/beautiful-things</loc>
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    <lastmod>2019-10-11</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Beautiful things</image:title>
      <image:caption>Source</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/5/27/u19ubph0sidyktojr446ulpdukx6du</loc>
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    <lastmod>2020-01-20</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Who is she anymore?</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  <url>
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    <lastmod>2019-05-07</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Closure</image:title>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/5/1/april-fool</loc>
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    <lastmod>2019-05-01</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - April fool - This month of blossoms and birthdays is finally over. As Raahi’s birth month, it brings new leaves to trees, and slaps me hard every day. Inside out. Upside down. It pricks me hollow, and it makes me weep, bleed, go white with numbness as pink cherry blossoms and lavender crabapple flowers erupt around me. People greet me in flowing dresses and tresses, their light feet floating on petal-ridden sidewalks, their smiles lingering at corners even as they turn, like seasons. Winter lingers in the mellow sun, its softness scorching my eyes, April showing me the permanence of life. April showing me the mockery of life.</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/4/22/in-response-to-june</loc>
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    <lastmod>2019-04-23</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - In response to June</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - In response to June</image:title>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/4/14/pilgrimage</loc>
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    <lastmod>2019-04-17</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Pilgrimage</image:title>
      <image:caption>source: the author</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/3/12/i-am-home</loc>
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    <lastmod>2019-10-11</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1552398704879-1Y1QYLHNNC54SZFHQU81/25236641656_fe77ccb115_o.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - I am home</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/3/4/when-lightning-strikes</loc>
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    <lastmod>2019-03-04</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The tightrope</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/2/25/the-wheel-and-the-windmill</loc>
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    <lastmod>2019-02-26</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The wheel and the windmill</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/2/18/after-amado</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2019-10-11</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - After Amado</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/2/11/this-old-house</loc>
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    <lastmod>2019-02-13</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - This old house</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/2/4/you-were-my-awakening</loc>
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    <lastmod>2019-02-04</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - You were my awakening</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/1/14/bittersweet</loc>
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    <lastmod>2019-01-14</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Bittersweet</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2019/1/10/death-makes-the-heart-grow-softer</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2019-10-11</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Death makes the heart grow softer</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/12/30/be-where-you-are-darling</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2018-12-30</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Be where you are, darling</image:title>
      <image:caption>source: Kate Inglis</image:caption>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Be where you are, darling</image:title>
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    <image:image>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Be where you are, darling</image:title>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/12/18/melancholy</loc>
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    <lastmod>2020-01-20</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Melancholy</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/12/13/phantasmagoria-from-notes-for-the-everlost</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2019-10-11</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Phantasmagoria from 'Notes for the Everlost'</image:title>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/12/4/complicated-conclusion</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2018-12-04</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - One complicated conclusion</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/11/19/the-shining-dead-star</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2019-10-11</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1542716111040-0EWCGW15V55AKM2A1XOG/12588274545_ac2d62dce7_o.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The shining dead star</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/11/5/the-power-of-positivity</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2018-11-06</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1541445668854-5AY7VF5HPQY1OANTEV20/DrJT1KiVYAArjrR.jpg-large.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The power of positivity</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/10/28/amado</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2019-10-11</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Amado</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/10/15/remembrance</loc>
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    <lastmod>2019-10-11</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Remembrance</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/10/8/echoes</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-10-08</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Echoes</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/10/1/letting-go</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-10-01</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Letting Go</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/9/11/why-we-glow</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-09-11</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Why we glow</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Why we glow</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Why we glow</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Why we glow</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Why we glow</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Why we glow</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Here, there, and everywhere</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Tangled</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Hibernation to apathy to nirvana</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - A collection of dismantled almosts</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - A collection of dismantled almosts</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - A collection of dismantled almosts</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - A collection of dismantled almosts</image:title>
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    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/7/23/the-call-of-the-fire</loc>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The call of the fire</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2018-07-03</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - On being out for review</image:title>
      <image:caption>source</image:caption>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - On being out for review</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2018-06-25</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Fragility</image:title>
      <image:caption>Loomis Dean, 1952.</image:caption>
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    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/6/18/life-and-loss-before-and-after</loc>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Life and loss, before and after</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by dyager.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>photo by Erin Purcell</image:caption>
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    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/6/4/allies-for-heartbreak</loc>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Allies for heartbreak</image:title>
      <image:caption>illustration by Kate Tagai</image:caption>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The day she died</image:title>
      <image:caption>The Heart and the Bottle by Oliver Jeffers</image:caption>
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    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/5/22/our-non-quiet-place</loc>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Our non-quiet place</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - I will not apologize</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Jessica Neuwerth</image:caption>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Surfacing</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Büsra Karatas</image:caption>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Backwards</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Theophilos Papadopoulos</image:caption>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - A love story</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2018-04-16</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Still drowning</image:title>
      <image:caption>artwork by Mark AC</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2018-04-09</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - There are new mountains</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by C. Blakeley</image:caption>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Karma</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Ezgi Polat</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2018-03-28</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Knowing you less and less</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Camille</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2018-03-19</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Simply complicated</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Lauren Rushing</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2018-03-12</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Two things for one community</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Two things for one community</image:title>
      <image:caption>Request to join the Glow in the Woods Facebook group</image:caption>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Two things for one community</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Two things for one community</image:title>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Two things for one community</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2018-03-06</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The after</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by B. La Plante</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2018-02-26</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The other shoe</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Laura Makabresku</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2018-02-20</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Our Only Time</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2018-02-14</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The other side</image:title>
      <image:caption>Collage by T.J.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2018-02-07</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - My moon</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Jessica Neuwerth</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2018-01-29</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The nightmare</image:title>
      <image:caption>Vintage postcard, source unknown.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2018-01-22</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Presumptuously hopeful</image:title>
      <image:caption>collage by cazatoma</image:caption>
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    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/1/15/sacrifice</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-01-15</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1516022967628-K0H0BMUDZ6TESNRDKH5S/polina-jan15.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Sacrifice</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Polina Washington</image:caption>
    </image:image>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2018/1/8/blowing-the-cover</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2018-01-08</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1515428679761-ASE2NL5YDH81L5CPCTSV/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Blowing the cover</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by D. Mituzas</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/12/27/none-for-zia</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-12-27</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1514395737207-35UUTH5WAUYJ6QLZXDYR/polinalights.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - None for zia</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Polina Washington</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/12/20/at-least</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-12-21</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1513829990019-W7R0BYA7ZZLNCGETE3DZ/Henrietta-Lacks3.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - At least</image:title>
      <image:caption>Image of Henrietta Lacks via The History Channel</image:caption>
    </image:image>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/12/12/you-are-loved</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2018-04-24</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1513056856867-FZ9GYTTOO14Z060QFOPH/15348688043_b3d4cc38f7_k.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - You are loved</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by B. Nyman</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/12/5/candor-devastating-and-electric</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-12-06</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1512448466662-LHLHX4NEGWFV7OD3MSRK/17050920070_0001.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Candor, devastating and electric</image:title>
      <image:caption>Illustration by Kate T., who writes: "Our favorite song came on the radio. We haven’t danced in the kitchen in a long time..."</image:caption>
    </image:image>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1512448732878-264F9P27K4Y63NT6GGOO/img_3522.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Candor, devastating and electric</image:title>
    </image:image>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1512449269920-5SPQ95XCXZLID704FP39/17091722571_0001.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Candor, devastating and electric</image:title>
      <image:caption>“You made me Tikka Masala? You’re the Best!” by Kate T.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/11/28/unthankful</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-11-29</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1511914722736-E7LPMCI8P5VZZQMFKKX7/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - (Un)thankful</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Ashley &amp; James</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/11/20/the-sibling-strategies</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-11-23</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1511223637305-LGPI68G0NXPSS9KW6IOD/33503021143_2d3c456fb4_k.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The sibling strategies</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Lauren Rushing</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/11/11/symbols</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-11-13</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1510415769634-P58GM53BPUQP6D9MQ7A0/10932375316_2dd4f0ced4_k.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Symbols</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Margot Pandone</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/11/5/memories</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-11-11</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1510023139548-JZ3LJGFLEGLTCC0WQE8C/eternal-sunshine-of-the-spotless-mind-2.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - On eternal sunshine</image:title>
      <image:caption>Photo from the film Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/11/1/resurfacing-the-ambassador</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-11-01</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1509542114961-ZA4GW7E532O6D0GLV87B/polnov1.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Resurfacing: the ambassador</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Polina Washington</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/10/23/awash</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-10-23</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1508797915680-OVFNWUM0MU1U45TW9WSC/2017-01-30+19.20.30.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Awash</image:title>
    </image:image>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1508798311624-HEPDQL0XJ1DN2MBTX575/DMnJTtYX0AAIQXg.jpg-large.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Awash</image:title>
      <image:caption>Gord Downie by Jeff Lemire</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/10/2/when-the-confetti-falls</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-10-02</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1506949852764-ZPKJP4SPKIOIB0MGABWT/confetti.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - When the confetti falls</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Sydney</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/9/20/pulling-it-back-together</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2019-10-11</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1506468219165-R18Z9SCD3A2KD1JLE22Z/polinasept26.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Pulling it back together</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Polina Washington</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/9/18/my-own-private-fairytale</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-09-26</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1505735944835-7N346SUGYA96Z0UP3JZR/17c1575604c1f17513e297d7573594a4.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - My own private fairytale</image:title>
      <image:caption>Gretel, the Brothers Grimm | Kay Nielsen</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/9/10/the-solitary-in-solidarity</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-09-11</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1505143777938-PIR0OQJPYFQ17EF7IOXO/groundzero.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The solitary in solidarity</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Colbaltski</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/9/4/she-was-this-close</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-09-04</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1499191433114-M87GYAC6TNLL1QUGZR4S/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - She was this close</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Katrina Y</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/8/29/life-in-stories</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-08-29</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1504020386817-O6W2Q2RHDT6OYAG8X4W0/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Life in stories</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Katrina Yu</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/8/20/fall-from-grace</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-08-21</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1503313985880-DFZAKFLP7V8NR46CLTL3/polinarock.jpg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Fall from grace</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Polina Washington</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/8/8/year-ten</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-08-08</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1502199954809-38DT1DI6VLNL4U0EL89W/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Year ten</image:title>
      <image:caption>From my Instagram, as time passes, and Liam, in still-life.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/7/31/birth-death-rebirth</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-08-07</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1501513423926-P1HKW6AFFWVF03SUPEHM/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Birth, death, rebirth</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by K. Inglis</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/7/21/the-first-1000</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-07-25</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1500948487853-4TJDAUN0EZYYZRSMI1K6/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The first 1,000</image:title>
      <image:caption>Art by Christina Rosalie</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/7/17/the-last-nail</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-07-17</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1500309350669-ATJ5ELX1AXEPDRPU4EUP/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The last nail</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Lee Summers</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/7/10/if-anyone-asks</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-07-12</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1499187475104-WHNDRWSFPU13M6WVWCDV/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - If anyone asks</image:title>
      <image:caption>Daughters of the Swahili Coast, Zanzibar, c. 1900. Photographer unknown. Courtesy Melville J. Herskovits Library of African Studies at Northwestern University.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/6/30/the-sadness-exists</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-07-03</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1498824965263-0OM7ONDUFT3JFHNCBGLJ/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The sadness exists</image:title>
      <image:caption>Concept art from Fantastic Beasts And Where To Find Them by Daniel Baker</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/6/27/i-miss-you</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-06-28</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1498656334859-DDW6O67VIJZJ3YQMA8P6/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - I miss you</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Betina</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/6/19/searching</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-06-19</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1497899074368-8JB5UXFF358CN8P3L9V9/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Searching</image:title>
      <image:caption>Art: Banksy. Photo by Kanaka.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/6/12/its-complicated</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-06-14</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1497395894773-HBHTMO4IU4OHN28ESBC7/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - It's complicated</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Katharina Jung</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/6/04/sad-but-true</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-12-11</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1496619476424-RNGRH82KP9RZNIWNUQ64/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Sad but true</image:title>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/5/25/flash-forwards</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-05-29</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1496068985195-C7KKRK2GL1HDPGEKZ30H/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Flash-forwards</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Katharina Jung</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/5/21/the-dialogue-of-death</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-05-22</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1495456453403-88AS1PQVI2ABSY5Z3HJP/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The dialogue of death</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Katrina Y</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/5/15/sugar-and-spice-and-sympathy</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-05-16</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1494904872666-ZJHA5KJCI04029R82M6U/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Sugar and spice and sympathy</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Katrina Y</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/4/28/the-mannequin</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-05-02</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1493757626401-MLZSEAMB1R2U5E3QDORW/image-asset.png</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The mannequin</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Katrina Y</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/4/26/waves</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-04-27</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1493307786859-VMQASBPQHX6B5GRE4KG4/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Waves</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Susan Licht</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/4/17/the-photographers-nicu</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-04-17</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1492444142422-M2A26CPBSJ6LP3990FKL/image-asset.png</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The photographer's NICU</image:title>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/4/10/the-opposite-of-pride</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-04-10</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The opposite of pride</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Polina Washington</image:caption>
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  <url>
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    <lastmod>2017-12-11</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Congratulations</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Meredith Winn</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/3/27/who-are-you</loc>
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    <lastmod>2017-05-24</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Who are you</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Alison Scarpulla</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/3/19/with-the-words-of-a-love-songs</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2019-10-11</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - With the words of a love song</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Lauren Rushing</image:caption>
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    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/3/12/error-and-trial</loc>
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    <lastmod>2017-03-14</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Error and trial</image:title>
      <image:caption>art by Jack Teagle</image:caption>
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  <url>
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    <lastmod>2017-12-11</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Flying without wings</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Eric Norris</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2017-02-27</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Enough time</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Xin Li</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2017-02-21</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The flip side of fear</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Xin Li</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/the-unwanted-gold</loc>
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    <lastmod>2017-02-14</lastmod>
    <image:image>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The unwanted gold</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Jessica Neuwerth</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/2/6/when-all-we-have-are-words</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-02-21</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - When all we have are words</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Xin Li</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/1/29/keeping-my-distance</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-01-30</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1485797035328-IZ59G3J5FO0UNEBYXTV7/image-asset.png</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Keeping my distance</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Susan Licht</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/1/23/company-we-keep</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-01-25</lastmod>
    <image:image>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The company we keep</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Jessica Neuwerth</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/1/16/ring-theory</loc>
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    <lastmod>2017-01-16</lastmod>
    <image:image>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The Ring Theory of what (not) to say</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Erin Purcell</image:caption>
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    <image:image>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The Ring Theory of what (not) to say</image:title>
      <image:caption>Illustration based on 'The Ring Theory' by Wes Bausmith / LA Times</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/1/9/completely-incomplete</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-01-10</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Completely incomplete</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Alison Scarpulla</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2017/1/3/when-grief-comes-again</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2019-10-11</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - When Grief comes again</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Lauren Rushing</image:caption>
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    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/12/26/truths</loc>
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    <lastmod>2016-12-26</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1482757148702-TBLJPZ0C0QAOJP1G8H07/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - truths</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Margaret Durow</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/12/19/help-us</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2017-01-02</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1482161305912-FSPQA7H8AAC4K19Z7MHR/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - "Our baby died yesterday. Please help us..."</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Erin Purcell</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/12/11/tidings-of-comfort</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-12-12</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Tidings of comfort</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo shared by K. Kitsch</image:caption>
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    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/12/4/incomplete</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-12-05</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1480965216173-WUSIQ4V48W4B5H9JVKUY/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Common ground</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Basheer Tome</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/11/28/the-namesake</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-11-28</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1480342827171-H7TEZOYJ0LRU8J8EWACE/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The namesake</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by I.M. Bildarkiv</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/11/20/miscarriage-compassion-relativity</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-11-22</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - 3 questions: on miscarriage, compassion, and relativity</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Mark Robinson</image:caption>
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    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/11/12/the-lonely-road</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-11-14</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1479142507271-AOHYZVGGECFS0FHEFK6V/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The lonely road</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Xin Li</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/11/7/one-more-day-one-day-more</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-11-08</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - One more day, one day more...</image:title>
      <image:caption>art by Ray Fenwick</image:caption>
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    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/10/31/the-dead-are-not-under-the-earth</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-10-31</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1477921257977-TN2R5S1GBWP9VP7G50ZO/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The dead are not under the earth</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by A. Périsset</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/10/25/i-know-its-sad-but</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-10-26</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1477397942718-VEJY9OQKFU526DP7WLHO/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - I know it's sad, but...</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Büsra Karatas</image:caption>
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    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1477399254160-Q7NDR1QD70JH6ARNWEBS/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - I know it's sad, but...</image:title>
      <image:caption>Chanie Wenjack as depicted in Secret Path, a graphic novel by Jeff Lemire with music by Gord Downie</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/10/16/premonitions</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-10-17</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Premonitions</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by lchunt</image:caption>
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  <url>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-10-10</lastmod>
    <image:image>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Tell me a story</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by margaret durow</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/10/3/the-immortal-daughter-the-mortal-daughter</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-10-05</lastmod>
    <image:image>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The immortal daughter, the mortal daughter</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Public Resource</image:caption>
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    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/9/26/remembrance</loc>
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    <lastmod>2016-09-26</lastmod>
    <image:image>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Remembrance</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Margaret Durow</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/9/18/saving-a-marriage-after-babyloss</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-09-19</lastmod>
    <image:image>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - On saving a marriage after babyloss</image:title>
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    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/9/12/subjunctive-mood</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-09-12</lastmod>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Subjunctive mood</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Lauren Rushing</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/9/5/-not-like-the-others</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-09-13</lastmod>
    <image:image>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Not like the others</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Barney Z.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/8/29/grief-is-a-strange-thing</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2019-10-11</lastmod>
    <image:image>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Grief is a strange thing</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Callen Singer</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/8/22/empathy</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-08-23</lastmod>
    <image:image>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Empathy</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Xin Li</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/8/14/on-moving</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-09-13</lastmod>
    <image:image>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - On moving</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Meredith Winn</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/8/8/memory</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-08-10</lastmod>
    <image:image>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Memory</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Margaret Durow</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/7/18/the-mountains-are-calling-and-i-must-go</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-08-01</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1468870711687-9XZGYMK97P5MEYOGC9T4/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The mountains are calling, and I must go</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Lauren Rushing</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/7/8/milk</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-08-23</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1469534765566-5X1X9X6BFW4BJOZQ9PM3/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Milk</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Matthew Perkins</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/7/5/surviving</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-09-13</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1467833392355-NTV8WIT5G67CZTVSD0O0/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Surviving</image:title>
      <image:caption>photos by Jacqueline Foss</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/7/12/walking-amongst-the-tombstones</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-07-13</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1468379148910-1F0KNJBLA94A9SRKZV7N/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Walking amongst the tombstones</image:title>
      <image:caption>art by Christina Rosalie</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/6/27/how-we-shall-laugh-at-the-trouble-of-parting</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-06-27</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1467067347480-0RC8MGW4SH5DYCK85F81/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting</image:title>
      <image:caption>art by Ben Tour</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/6/20/lessons-in-loss</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-06-21</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1466436342332-JNZFA4AKNQR7JS8UNQTD/image-asset.png</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Lessons in loss</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Margaret Durow</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/6/13/the-need-for-certainty</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-07-06</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1465845625689-ZTG8VOQ0RADV56COISKS/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The need for certainty</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Meredith Winn</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/6/6/today</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-06-06</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1465230520345-FOJD5UDDPCKKKA27L52L/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Today</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by A.Scarpulla</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/5/30/the-sense-the-absence</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-05-30</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1464628784493-5ZM6TKIMHALI96O92BF1/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The sense, the absence</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by E.Z.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/5/24/across-the-universe</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-07-06</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1464131106043-IZBQO4AOMO4XAVSD7KO7/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Across the universe</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Margaret Durow</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/5/16/pilgrimage-parenthood-grief</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-05-16</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1463440366847-IZG1LOSJLGR2PTW0YCOM/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - On pilgrimage, parenthood, grief, and home repairs</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Basheer Tome</image:caption>
    </image:image>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1463441540787-9R5Q99ZEWI5W60SLVX7I/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - On pilgrimage, parenthood, grief, and home repairs</image:title>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/5/9/mothers-day</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-05-16</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1462818934650-SXMKUNI1H5WRJ20RRCX1/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The day after mother's day</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Basheer Tome</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/5/1/subject-to-interpretation</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-05-02</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1462137636702-9B7IYUGB6KDDYD6QMXE3/image-asset.png</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Subject to interpretation</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by meredith winn</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/4/25/i-want-to-tell-them.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-05-01</lastmod>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/4/18/enough.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-05-02</lastmod>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/4/9/17.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-05-01</lastmod>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/4/4/mother-earth-in-spring.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-05-01</lastmod>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/3/25/stray-cat-sings-back</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-05-02</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1462208106881-I740N7NH96OUJW39JXVL/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Stray cat sings back</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by K.Inglis</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/3/17/at-the-kitchen-table-the-future-of-glow.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-04-10</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459335263748-5MRSYA96LSBNM0HLGT6I/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - At the kitchen table: the future of glow</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by R. Siegel</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/3/12/you-and-us-at-the-kitchen-table.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-04-19</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459335931989-W1RIVTDAU148607TO927/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - You and us, at the kitchen table</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by chadao</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/3/5/this-week-at-the-kitchen-table.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-04-10</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459336178304-AFDK9A0P8X58EO7DSH73/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - This week at the kitchen table</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Vazquez</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/2/27/at-the-kitchen-table-readers-pull-up-a-chair.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-04-10</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459336555273-BCN2XYVK40UFDNUAQSNJ/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - At the kitchen table: readers, pull up a chair...</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by B.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/2/22/expectations.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-04-10</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459309671485-I51YV7JQFA6U3OAI6GYN/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Expectations</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by M. | art by Banksy</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/2/15/just-the-storm.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-07-06</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459310247338-BHKOERTS6E547CEFC2KB/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Just the storm</image:title>
      <image:caption>phoyo by Randen</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/2/8/lost-and-never-found.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-04-19</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459310905502-TJMQWM8KTITSHXDTRMUP/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Lost, and never found</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by m.C.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/2/1/outsideinside.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-04-19</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459311492704-YF7VZI3HQ9Q14J33B84M/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Outside/inside</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Marianna Santikou</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/1/25/broken-dreams.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-07-06</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459340024193-I35KOB6OVK92X71YIZ34/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Broken dreams</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Lauren Rushing</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/1/19/approaching.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2019-10-11</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459311750471-OAKXOH2P9AA76L70XTLQ/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Approaching</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Kate Inglis</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/1/11/to-my-first-daughter-on-christmas-morning.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-07-06</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1462196855987-NSWENAEOA766Z42TNQ7S/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - To my first daughter, on Christmas morning</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by basheer tome</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2016/1/4/characterization.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-05-02</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459312567448-KRR4H4F5H6J63SDN2QT4/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Characterization</image:title>
      <image:caption>via Library of Congress</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2015/12/28/to-my-before-self.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-07-06</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459312820608-ZOETCDTK2BNS6L2XNNFJ/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - To my "before" self</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Xin Li</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2015/12/21/i-dreamed-of-houses.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-04-19</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459313248031-938H4YZP4L12BCSDMLPT/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - I dreamed of houses</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by lauren RUSHING</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2015/12/7/happy-crappy-birthday.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-07-06</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459313857084-5WI1ZCJ5RT72ZGA6V7Q2/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Happy crappy birthday</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Carsten T.B.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2015/12/1/earthquake.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-04-19</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459314426851-CLJ9ZR6ATOELT44MO91T/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Earthquake</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by K. Hiscock</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2015/11/23/hope-despite.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-07-06</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459314727815-E1E308RZOCIOIUIKCXS7/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Hope despite</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Lauren Rushing</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2015/11/15/parting-with-a-play-kitchen.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-07-06</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459339928318-NICYH4QGLQCPRYC2OF3C/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Parting with a play kitchen</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Lauren Rushing</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2015/11/9/biology-lessonseahorses.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-04-19</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459315845842-2JBKVL76406X8JRWQRT0/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Biology lesson/seahorses</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by R. Ling</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2015/11/2/salvaging-remnants-of-faith.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-05-02</lastmod>
    <image:image>
      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459316241247-ROKZWA8ZFUGK3VYF93WP/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Salvaging remnants of faith</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by T. Parnell</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2015/10/26/missing-out.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - From margaret, a mother</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Rebecca Boyd</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2009/1/23/what-dreams-may-come.html</loc>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2009/1/5/7-x-7-january-2009-the-medusas-on-seasons-holidays-versaries.html</loc>
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    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/12/27/dear-baby.html</loc>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Dear baby</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Li Hui</image:caption>
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  <url>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/12/21/7-by-7-january-2009.html</loc>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - at the kitchen table: as the year turns</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Subash</image:caption>
    </image:image>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/12/14/tis-the-season.html</loc>
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    <lastmod>2016-03-30</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/12/11/darkness-and-light.html</loc>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/12/8/home.html</loc>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/12/3/replacement.html</loc>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/11/24/no-snowflake-in-an-avalanche-ever-feels-responsible.html</loc>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - No snowflake in an avalanche ever feels responsible</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by meredith winn</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/11/18/the-happiest-story-with-the-saddest-ending-an-interview-with.html</loc>
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    <lastmod>2016-03-30</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/11/17/glow-in-the-woods-awards-november-2008.html</loc>
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    <lastmod>2016-03-30</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/11/14/call-for-nominations-glow-in-the-woods-awards-november-2008.html</loc>
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    <lastmod>2016-03-30</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/11/13/back-and-forth-back-and-forth.html</loc>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/11/7/strong-threads.html</loc>
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    <lastmod>2016-03-30</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/11/3/turn-it-inside-out-the-evolution-of-her-grief.html</loc>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/10/30/standing-with-the-girl-who-says-she-is-nothing.html</loc>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Standing with the girl who says she is nothing</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by K. Inglis</image:caption>
    </image:image>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/10/27/strength-in-the-ashes.html</loc>
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    <lastmod>2016-03-30</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/10/23/opening-windows.html</loc>
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    <lastmod>2016-03-30</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/10/20/of-magic-and-faith.html</loc>
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    <lastmod>2016-03-30</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/10/16/you-keep-on-walking.html</loc>
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    <lastmod>2016-03-30</lastmod>
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  <url>
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    <lastmod>2012-02-21</lastmod>
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  <url>
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    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/10/8/gone-is-the-ultimate-goal.html</loc>
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    <lastmod>2012-06-19</lastmod>
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    <lastmod>2012-06-19</lastmod>
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    <lastmod>2012-02-21</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/9/11/precious-gift.html</loc>
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    <lastmod>2012-02-21</lastmod>
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  <url>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/9/8/call-for-entries-glow-in-the-woods-awards-september-2008.html</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2012-02-21</lastmod>
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  <url>
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    <lastmod>2012-06-19</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/9/1/6-by-6-september-2008.html</loc>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1459189308810-1BP9YP4B53HWE3ONVSLX/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - at the kitchen table: grappling with god(s)</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Xin Li</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/8/28/thankful.html</loc>
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    <lastmod>2012-06-19</lastmod>
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  <url>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-05-02</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1462195002864-N07YDLEIN31H8845DS68/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - What I used to be</image:title>
    </image:image>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/8/18/revisiting-closure.html</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-03-30</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/8/16/welcome-sweet-baby.html</loc>
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    <lastmod>2008-08-16</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/8/15/glowing-in-the-woods-august-2008.html</loc>
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    <lastmod>2012-02-21</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/8/14/insanity-perhaps.html</loc>
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    <lastmod>2012-06-19</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/8/11/the-woman-who-called-herself-free.html</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2016-05-02</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1462195694684-IN0R0L0OJ43SVOKTSB56/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - The woman who called herself free</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by simon bleasdale</image:caption>
    </image:image>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/8/10/no-dominion.html</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2012-06-19</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/8/7/letters-of-significance.html</loc>
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    <lastmod>2012-06-19</lastmod>
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  <url>
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    <lastmod>2012-02-21</lastmod>
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  <url>
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    <lastmod>2012-06-19</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/7/31/time-and-again.html</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2012-06-19</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/7/27/a-wave-of-surrender.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2012-06-19</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/7/24/freddy-dead-at-nine-months.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
    <priority>0.5</priority>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1462196462914-OQ28M5TJOQ0YL329EZJA/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Freddy, Dead at Nine Months</image:title>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/7/20/art-of-healing.html</loc>
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  <url>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/7/15/glowing-in-the-woods-july-2008.html</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2012-02-21</lastmod>
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  <url>
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  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/7/10/wet-your-whistle-at-the-cloven-hoof-inn.html</loc>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56f560765559866730bc5d75/1462189951875-FMJCBTJNFPOZC5VHZ5IN/image-asset.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - Wet your whistle at the cloven hoof inn</image:title>
      <image:caption>Ladies in Hades (Dell Books) back cover map for crime thriller, USA 1950, courtesy Steven Guarnaccia</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/7/9/call-for-entries-gitw-awards-july-2008.html</loc>
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  <url>
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  <url>
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  <url>
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      <image:title>for babylost mothers and fathers - At the kitchen table: taking stock</image:title>
      <image:caption>photo by Xin Li</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>http://www.glowinthewoods.com/blog/2008/7/1/6-by-6-july-2008.html</loc>
    <changefreq>monthly</changefreq>
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  <url>
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  <url>
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  <url>
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      <image:caption>I am a mother to two sons-one gone and one here-living a life filled with sorrow and joy and trying to make room for both.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>contributors - Emily</image:title>
      <image:caption>I am a mother to two sons-one gone and one here-living a life filled with sorrow and joy and trying to make room for both.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>contributors - Jennifer</image:title>
      <image:caption>The death of my second daughter in 2012 was baffling; her absence its own presence. When I first found Glow in the Woods, I could not imagine being even six months out from her death, and now I am here, all these many years later, carrying her with me, and through the wonder of the babyloss community, knowing she is loved and remembered as your babies are, too.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>contributors - Jo-Anne</image:title>
      <image:caption>I lost her body. All that remains is held in a wooden box in my home. I find her every time I share her story or reach out to another soul shattered by loss. I bare my soul willingly.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I never wanted a daughter, because I wanted one so badly. Then she was here, but she was never really here... and now she is always here. A tangled lifeline, one of Mother Nature's epic screw ups. And four sons to raise, who will know their only sister in more ways than just a gravestone down the road.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>contributors - Nori</image:title>
      <image:caption>My first child, a daughter, was born in the spring and died a week later. I'm writing from the in between space, to document her life and death and what it means to be her mother.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>contributors - Samantha</image:title>
      <image:caption>She died two days before her due date in the only place I ever thought she'd be safe; I had never failed so hard at something I cared so much about. This was my introduction to motherhood. And even two breathtaking children later, I am irrevocably changed.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I am broken, healing, mending, scarred. Patrick’s death has showed me that it is possible to live with sadness and happiness at the same time. Patrick was diagnosed with Multiple Congenital Anomalies Hypotonia Seizure Syndrome type 2. He died at 8 months of age in palliative care after contracting a virus.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>contributors - Emma</image:title>
      <image:caption>I am trying to introduce you to him properly, gently prying him from behind my back, out from my chest, my heart : My son, the little brother who was going to finally, finally make our family complete. He is a cloud, a box, a gift, a dream, an impossibility, a stone in the woods, an emptiness wider than the sky.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>One of the hardest parts of grief is the loneliness. After my daughter James died two weeks before her due date I felt so isolated, like nobody could ever truly understand my pain. Finding Glow in the Woods felt like catching my breath. I write here with the hope that my words may offer even the tiniest bit of comfort to others walking this path and to remind them they are not alone. I write here to honor James.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>emeritus - Kate Inglis</image:title>
      <image:caption>Twelve years ago, Ben grunted in his cot, almost ready to come home, and the lost baby heart-trinket given to me by a NICU nurse as she took Liam away hung on a string around my neck, warmed by my skin. There's been so much since then. Liam is my eyes, my spring, my afterlife.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>emeritus - Cameron</image:title>
      <image:caption>In our final moment together, one of my tears landed just below Cora's right eye, as though she cried it herself. My motherly urge was to wipe it off, but I let it be. Then the nurse rolled her away, my whole heart, never to be seen again. I now weave Cora's story into the tapestry of the human experience, sharing and seeking what's real, raw, and honest.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>emeritus - Elaina</image:title>
      <image:caption>My daughter Agnes, diagnosed with a fatal birth defect, lived for a few hours on this side of the world. Here I write in the aftermath of my loss, hoping to transcend some of this darkness into light.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>To me, always—more since we buried our second child, our first son, A—the candle is a fragile, finite, ephemeral, but necessary focus point in the dark. When there is nothing else to do, I find myself lighting a candle.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>emeritus - Mrittika</image:title>
      <image:caption>Raahi was the restoration of my faith in my life, the completion of my family, the one to take us on a spectacular journey. After twelve grueling weeks at the NICU and two surgeries, she came home healthy and happy. Eight days later, she wandered on, alone, leaving the three of us to only trace her path.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>emeritus - Nada</image:title>
      <image:caption>I search for my lost son, day in and day out, while I shuffle aimlessly throughout my days. If I pick up my pen and write, maybe it will bring sense to his absence, conjure his lost love back into my heart. In the spaces of time—between light and dark, I find him again. In my words, I love him. In my words, he lives.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>emeritus - Ana</image:title>
      <image:caption>I always wanted a daughter. Then I had Nadia, but she didn't get to stay. It is one thing to love someone who isn't there anymore, but I am left loving someone who was, in many important ways, never there—except to me. The loneliest of feelings alongside the deepest of connections.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>emeritus - Justin</image:title>
      <image:caption>Before stumbling out of the hospital and into the cold rain of November, I kissed my daughter one last time and told her that I love her so very much. The kind nurse rocking her looked up at me and said, "She knows." The words I collect here are one way I make sure she never forgets.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>emeritus - Burning Eye</image:title>
      <image:caption>Porcelain. Gypsum. A book of mica. Those sugar crystals you grow in elementary science on a fuzzy piece of yarn. A thin sheet of seasalt, water evaporated. The slow seeping drip of water in a limestone cave, and the fragile tiers of rimstone bubbling out of a hot spring. After the stillbirth of our son, these are the things I am made of.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>emeritus - Angie</image:title>
      <image:caption>Winter solstice. My daughter died before she was born. She was perfectly healthy, they said. Just dead. Since her death, I am more of who I once was, which isn't always a good thing.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>emeritus - Catherine W.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Mother to twin girls born over sixteen weeks too soon. One of my daughters emerged from the shadowy world of the NICU but, sadly, her twin sister died there. A part of me is still waiting for my other daughter to come home. Still standing in the very spot where we said goodbye. It's going to be a long wait.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>emeritus - Tash</image:title>
      <image:caption>After five years of a miscarriage, infertility, infertility treatment, and a healthy toddler, we decided to try one more time for one more baby. We are left with a gaping hole following the six days of our baby’s so-called life. I cope, grieve, and mother a live, inquisitive three-and-a-half year old as well as the memory of my dead daughter.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>emeritus - Josh</image:title>
      <image:caption>Just as the anticipation was nearing climax, after the build up and the longing and accumulating love and the physical hardship and everything else that went into those thirty-eight weeks, my partner tripped and fell on the sidewalk. Her placenta ruptured and Margot died. A new life is slowly emerging, one filled with overwhelming sorrow and an iTunes playlist that no longer includes Beyonce. I write here to join the society of the suffering and to keep my second daughter close.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This is the third spring of buds on the birch trees we planted in our backyard my first Mother's Day...nine days after Finn was born, eight days after he died. 'When I see birches bend to left and right/across the lines of straighter darker trees/I like to think some boy's been swinging them.' —Robert Frost Of course, it will not be him.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I am forever changed because of you, my Sweet Tikva. Changed in a way I can't really explain. Changed in an irreversible way. Changed in a way I needed to be changed. I see you in the birds flying gracefully, playing within the gliding arms of the wind.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My baby died. I never knew her. I wish I did.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>World crashed when he died. Picking up pieces and trying to fit together a puzzle without having any idea what the completed picture should look like.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The art of losing isn't hard to master; so many things seem filled with the intent to be lost that their loss is no disaster.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>We had no idea she would leave us. Six weeks old, sweet cherub cheeks just starting to smile in spite of a heart that simply couldn't cope. Now I'm left, forced into the dark, reeling with shock, empty arms hanging at my sides. I ache for my lost purpose while I force one foot in front of the other. Trying my best to find a way back to new and utterly different light.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My son Silas died the day he was born. There are two halves to my life, now. The words I write here are an attempt to reconcile who I was with who I have become, and to keep my missing son close. There are so few ways to hold him. This place is one of them.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My daughter, Roxy Jean, was stillborn on August 1st, 2007. Her 7 plus pounds are still etched into my arms. I sing for her and I write for her so that I may always keep her with me.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>One brief moment of hope, holding him for the first time, our fifth child, our first boy. It seemed like it might come right. He seemed happy in my arms. I thought I was mother enough to make him stay. But I wasn't. Eleven SCBU days later he faded away, unexplained and unexpectedly. I went home to try and be mother to my daughters who broke in pieces without their brother.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Our boy lived for less than thirty minutes after he was born.  It takes me longer than that every morning just to make my coffee and eat breakfast and yet his brief life has completely changed the landscape of my own in ways that I am still trying to understand.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I hoped B.W.’s death and birth would be our single unfathomable tragedy. Seven years and one living son later, Zachary was born premature. He was two weeks old when we removed life support. I thought I could imagine what a second death would do to me. I was wrong.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>She was going to be our wedding present, but after a difficult early pregnancy, my body gave out at the half-way mark. With no answers to be had, and no little girl to bring home, I just keep writing, hoping to mark my trail, hoping to stumble into the light. Most days it feels like I’m more lost than she is, but I keep up the search.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>For nearly two years, we tried to get them here. Then they were. Then they weren’t. We lost our twins, Zoey and Gus. We mourned. We began trying again. Sometimes in that order, sometimes not.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The pregnancy was easy, until the moment it wasn't. Gabriel was here for 30 minutes. Nothing was easy after. Not the grieving and mourning, not four subsequent miscarriages, not the reconciliation of living without children. It is better now. It is not easier.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Sometimes I wonder if my eyes will always look this empty—they didn’t used to. A light went out in me when I lost him. I had a son. We named him Caden, and he changed the course of my life. Writing is a means of pulling myself out of the darkness, and often easier than saying the words out loud. I’ve learned that grief is isolating and unpredictable, and I am constantly learning how to navigate it.</image:caption>
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