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May 11, 2026

I see you

May 11, 2026/ Jo-Anne
I see you

So I want to say this, to anyone who understands this kind of ongoing loss:

You are not meant to force yourself into distance from it.

You don’t have to make it smaller to make it bearable.

Let it be what it is. Let it be as deep as it actually is.

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May 11, 2026/ Jo-Anne/ 1 Comment
coping, time
Jo-Anne
May 05, 2025

Six years

May 05, 2025/ Nori
Six years

It was as though I was a moon slowly being pulled from an outer orbit to an inner orbit of the planet of grief. A flood of tears that began slowly, with a trickle, then a stream, and finally the deluge. A predictable order, each phase easing me forwards. 

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anniversaries, coping, time
Nori
April 20, 2025

The quiet room in my heart

April 20, 2025/ Jo-Anne
The quiet room in my heart

I know, too, that moving on is not a failure, that healing is no betrayal. This life, this breath is me honoring something sacred.

 And you, my almost, my always—you are still worthy of being missed.

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April 20, 2025/ Jo-Anne/ Comment
remembrance, time
Jo-Anne
December 16, 2024

not this time of year again

December 16, 2024/ Kathy
not this time of year again

with heavy hands
i rummaged through her little pink box
to find her Merry Christmas garden flag

and none of it felt merry.

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holidays, poetry, seasons, time
kathy
December 02, 2024

Unknowable

December 02, 2024/ Jennifer
Unknowable

But then sometimes you see all at once how much more loss has piled up over time. The loss of all the potential girls and women she could have been, might have known, might have loved, and the countless unknown people who have lost something by never knowing, never having been loved by, that girl, that woman who might have been.

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December 02, 2024/ Jennifer/ 2 Comments
distance, missing, time
Jennifer
November 04, 2024

The appointed time

November 04, 2024/ Guest Writer
The appointed time

She went in less than fifteen minutes, after we said our good byes. She waited for us. I guess she knew when.

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medical & science, coping, time
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