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April 15, 2024

river part 2

April 15, 2024/ Kathy
river part 2

i always think you’re dying.
isn’t that the silliest thing?

you have long been dead
and in the ground

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April 15, 2024/ Kathy/ Comment
distance, poetry, time
Kathy
February 05, 2024

why, why, why

February 05, 2024/ Kathy
why, why, why

it’s not productive to think about
but sometimes it’s important to go over it all again,
like a perverted reassurance
that she died and it’s not my fault or her fault or their fault

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February 05, 2024/ Kathy/ 3 Comments
poetry, guilt, trauma, accepting
Kathy
November 13, 2023

What blooms in darkness

November 13, 2023/ Guest Writer
What blooms in darkness

“Dear Felix,” I start my journal entries now, channeling my son through his two sweet syllables. I feed and water our relationship with words, not wanting to miss what blooms in darkness. I beckon him close, close, closer still.

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November 13, 2023/ Guest Writer/ 2 Comments
names, missing, words and song, poetry
Guest Writer
August 25, 2023

Missed kindergarten

August 25, 2023/ Kathy
Missed kindergarten

a backpack is full of hope and adventure
and discovery of who that precious child will become
in this strange formidable world that all children are called to conquer

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August 25, 2023/ Kathy/ 4 Comments
parenting, poetry, seasons
Kathy
May 01, 2023

Chimera

May 01, 2023/ Kathy
Chimera

my body absorbed pieces of her
as carefully and instinctively as my soul did

it’s as lovely as she was lovely

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May 01, 2023/ Kathy/ 1 Comment
beauty, poetry, spirit-world
Kathy
January 09, 2023

Winter, two poems

January 09, 2023/ Kathy
Winter, two poems

and it is like this every year
when the axis of earth dares change its mind,
and when the memories of past winters
turn to crystals in the air

 

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January 09, 2023/ Kathy/ 3 Comments
poetry, surroundings, time, seasons
Kathy
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